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Finally becoming conscious. Seeking truth and meaning, and a new way of being in the world.

All Paths Can Lead to Consciousness

What is it about many organized religions, that those practicing claim to have found “the” way, and that that is the “only” way? And most frighteningly, try to impose that on others. How can anyone claim to have a monopoly on this? Perhaps that is why so many have fled these restrictions, and are seeking their own path to consciousness. 

Richard Rohr is a Franciscan priest who talks about male spirituality, adult Christianity, politics and spirituality, and non-dual thinking in a refreshingly open, unconventional, and down-to-earth way. I like his take on it. He says that almost all religion begins with a specific encounter with something that feels “holy” or transcendent: a place, an emotion, an image, music, a liturgy, an idea that suddenly gives you access to a bigger world. The natural and universal response is to “idolize” and idealize that event. It becomes sacred for you, and it surely  is. The only mistake is that too many then conclude that this is the only way, the best way, the superior way, the special way that I myself just happen to have discovered. Then, they must both protect their idol and spread this exclusive way to others. But what evidence do they have that other people have not also encountered the holy or profound in their own way?

The false leap of logic is that other places, images, liturgies, scriptures, or ideas cannot give you access to a higher power, or plane of existence. Much religion wastes far too much time trying to separate itself from—and create “purity codes” against—what is perceived as secular, bad, heretical, dangerous, “other,” or wrong.

If we are all connected, like drops in the ocean, then all paths can lead to consciousness. One is no more or less true than the next.

Spiritual Depression?

Sounds like a contradiction, doesn’t it? The very beginning of my spiritual journey has felt like an awakening. But it also feels intensely frustrating at times, like I have somehow lost my tether, which I suppose I have. Very few really talk about that part. I have been reading Barbara Marx Hubbard (Birth 2012). In it she talks about how major crises happen just before transformation, and how these are “evolutionary drivers” that can propel us to a better, more unified and loving existence, or they can destroy us. Sure feels like we’re at that point. Anyway, a bigger topic for another day.

She also describes on an individual level the discontent and that nagging sense of “lack of meaning” in your life, but that this feeling of dissonance is what initially awakens us. If you are depressed and if you sense that there’s something in you that hasn’t been expressed, then it’s a signal that the universe inside me is pushing me to act towards something more. So rather than “what’s wrong with me,” I can ask “what wants to be born from me.” Anyone been through this? Any wisdom to share?

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How Much Is Enough?

Yes I know…he must be out of his mind. But sometimes out of it is easier than in it (but that’s a whole other story). Even before Nicaragua I have been thinking about how much is enough, but that trip really cemented it. The corporate treadmill and how empty that was feeling. How accumulation was not satisfying or meaningful anymore. I want my family and I to be comfortable, but how much do we really need, and how far am I willing to go? I don’t have any concrete answers yet, but I am searching. Anyway, I just came across this article in Time, 1 of 10 big ideas that are shaping our lives. And it continues to make me think.

Past, Present, Future

ImageStaying present and “in the now” continues to be my main challenge in life. I know that compulsively thinking about past or future is not the path to peace. My mother and I are stuck in the past, and it is impossible for us to move forward. And I am so sad about that.

Rage, anger, guilt, resentment, and depression are all emotions associated with thoughts about the past. Fear, anxiety, worry, tension, and stress are all related to thoughts about the future. And I often find myself toggling back and forth between both states (Keith Ashford talks about this in his book about anger). When I occasionally find myself, or manage to get myself into the now, it is such a release. Meditation helps. Being around my wife too….she’s so good at this….at simply “living.” Hope to figure out how to spend more time here…

Do Unto Others

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“If all of us acted in unison, as I act individually, there would be no wars and no poverty. I make myself personally responsible for the fate of every human being who comes my way.” –Anais Nin

I cannot say that I follow this to the letter. Being personally reponsible for every person that comes my way is a very tall order. Yet I feel that there is so much truth entangled with this idea. Our actions, or non-actions allow or prevent things to happen. I effect and affect everything around me in some way. I have no idea what it means to be a political leader, and the complexities involved, but I cannot ever imagine myself knowingly engaging in activity that will hurt or destroy others. So how does it happen? How do we allow things to escalate? Why do we behave in ways that we would not appreciate if they were done to us (do unto others….).

What are your thoughts on this?

Our Highest Good

 

Nothing is ever as bad as it seems. Nothing.

 

There is a benefit and a blessing hidden in the folds

of every experience and every outcome. That includes

every and any ‘bad’ thing that may be happening to

you right now.

 

Change your perspective. Know that nothing happens

ever that is not for your highest good. All that needs

to change for you to see this…is your definition of

‘Highest Good.’

–Neil Donald Walsch